Labor Day lake visit

Yesterday the family packed up some snacks, supplies, and the dog and drove up to Lake Gaston to visit our family friends, the Naylors, at their lakehouse for the day. We had a nice ride around the lake on their pontoon boat, stopping in a cove to go for a quick swim before returning to their house. Storm clouds were approaching by that time so we stayed inside and caught up. It was a wonderful visit with wonderful friends.

On the way back those storm clouds continued darkening and 45 minutes into the drive home the bottom absolutely fell out. I spent a good 15 minutes driving through very heavy rain! It reached its fiercest when we neared Franklinton but never completely ended. By the time we got into Raleigh we were hitting large puddles all along Atlantic Avenue and Kelly saw Crabtree Creek nearing the top of the bridge at Hodges St. Fortunately for us it stopped raining almost exactly as long as it took us to unload the major things from the car.

At some point yesterday afternoon I developed a raging headache which continued through dinner and never let up. Driving in a heavy rain did little to relieve it, too. I got home and decided the only thing that could make me feel better was a shower and bed. I was asleep by 10 after 9. I feel better now, though.

Abingdon vacation

We got back Friday evening from a great vacation in Abingdon, where much of our activity was spent outdoors.

I found a little cottage (the “Craftsman”) on the Cottages on the Creeper website and booked it last minute for a good price. We hauled our bikes with us, too, which allowed us to roam much of the town and Creeper trail without an automobile.

We had dinner Sunday evening at the Bone Fire Restaurant, mainly because it was one of the few places open. The meal was only so-so, and afterwards we roamed the town a bit before relaxing at our cottage.

Monday was spent riding the Creeper trail from Abingdon to Damascus and back, stopping in Damascus for lunch at the Blue Blaze Cafe. The Cafe had good food but had very slow service. Kelly and the kids wandered the nearby stores while I waited at the table for our order to arrive. Afterward we got ice cream at a corner shop, the Dairy King, before riding the 16 miles back to Abingdon. Oh, and it rained on us a bit while we were in and near Damascus.
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Hertz rips me off again

At the end of our recent vacation to Wisconsin we dropped off our Hertz rental car at the Minneapolis airport and gathered our belongings. The Hertz attendant smiled as he approached.

“Good afternoon, sir,” he said. “Our receipt print-out takes a while. If you want you can get a receipt at the desk.”

“Ok,” I responded and let him do his inspection, thinking nothing of it. We left the city without a receipt for our Hotwire-paid car.

I should have known better. Hertz socked us with a gas bill of over $90, in spite of filling up the car only minutes before.

This is the second time Hertz has ripped me off by charging me for a phantom tank of gas. Hertz is a lying, dishonest company and I won’t be giving them any of my money ever again.

My experience with Gulf War Syndrome

USS Elliot (DD-967) in North Arabian Gulf, circa 1998

USS Elliot (DD-967) in North Arabian Gulf, circa 1998


On the Gulf War Veterans Facebook group, one of the members asked if anyone had mystery illnesses. It sparked a lively discussion – one that sometimes veered off into black helicopter land – but it did inspire me to share my mystery symptoms with the group. I’ve alluded to these previously but have not shared them in this detail on my blog before.

As I said in my Facebook post, my desire for answers outweighs my reluctance to post this info in a public forum. If you know me you know what a statement that is. I hope it draws out others to share their experiences, too.
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High Bridge Trail State Park

High Bridge Trail State Park


I write this from cabin 4 of Twin Lakes State Park, located near Farmville, VA. It’s Saturday evening, November 24th, 2012 around 8:49 PM. Kelly and I are here alone tonight, the kids preferring to sleep in their grandparents’ cabin a few meters away from ours. As there is no Internet access here (nor no phones), I am writing this to post later.

We’ve been here since the day after Thanksgiving, having felt the urge to go camping one more time this year but not having the guts to tough out another camping trip when temperatures dip to the mid-20s in the morning. Cabins proved to be a good compromise, with the added bonus that Twin Lakes is closer to home for we Turners (we spent Thanksgiving with Kelly’s parents in Warrenton this year).
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Hornbeam Hill, 2012

Hornbeam Hill swing and pavilion


We just got back from a visit to Kelly’s parents and a weekend spent at Virginia’s Twin Lakes State Park. I wrote this post last night.

On the way down to the park on Friday, we detoured to visit Hornbeam Hill, the rural patch of land where Kelly and I got married 13 years ago. It had been probably a decade since we last saw it, Kelly’s parents having sold it soon after our wedding due to their desire for something more suburban. The kids had never seen it and we had no particular time schedule so we turned on to Bell Farms Lane in Palmyra and brought the van to a stop along the side of the property.
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Airdevil plans Atlantic crossing using 365 balloons

Raleigh resident and part-time daredevil balloonist Jonathan Trappe will be headed for the skies again next summer, this time on a trip across the Atlantic Ocean!

The big balls in the sky won’t just be the cluster balloons!

AN adventurer who became the first person to fly the English Channel dangling under helium-balloons is now planning to cross the entire Atlantic Ocean.

Intrepid Jonathan Trappe, 38, plans to navigate an incredible 2,500 miles next summer in a seven-foot lifeboat suspended by 365 huge UV-resistant balloons.

His outlandish aircraft will have an open roof with a canopy to protect him from high-altitude winds and frost bite.

Floating at between 18,000ft and 25,000ft – beating his previous record of 21,600ft – Jonathan will have to fly ten times further than his previous record of 230 miles to succeed.

via Airdevil plans Atlantic crossing using 365 balloons | The Sun |News.

Herndon Class of 1987 25th reunion

Herndon High School Class of 1987 rides an antique firetruck in the 2012 Homecoming parade


This weekend was the 25th “mini-reunion” of the Herndon High School Class of 1987, a reunion I helped to organize. Kelly and I have a history at our high school reunions, being that we met at our ten-year reunion, so it seemed like putting together a modest reunion in-between the 20th and 30th was appropriate.

So what did I do? I found out the date of the school’s homecoming game, created a Facebook event on the Class of 1987’s Facebook page, and negotiated a reduced-rate room deal with the hotel. My classmate Richell Sleptz lives in Herndon and suggested places we should meet. Working together, we got something going.
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Off the grid and on the lake

We spent the weekend off the grid, so to speak, as we stayed at a friend’s lakehouse on Lake Gaston. Most of our time was spent on the water in some boat or another, though we did visit a bit with our good friends the Naylors (and their friends Bill and Sue) at their lakehouse.

We’re glad to be back home and settled in on a rainy “school night.” We’re glad to have gotten in a trip to the lake and look forward to our next visit.

Outer Banks Thursday

Nags Head sunrise


We began our Thursday morning with the promised “dolphin hunt” and I surprised myself with being willing to leap out of bed around 6 AM. The family trudged down the road to the beach as the eastern sky was brightening.

Though it was early, it was wonderful having the beach practically all to ourselves. We sat on the “sand wall” built by the high tide and studied the awakening ocean before us. Numerous sorties of pelicans swooped low across the water, occasionally nabbing a fish breakfast for their trouble. I snapped pictures as the kids cheerfully smiled and yawned in the pre-dawn light. Though we didn’t see any dolphins that morning, we did see an amazingly beautiful sunrise.

The Turners at Nags Head, August 2012.

There’s something about seeing the sun rise over the ocean, something that’s just not the same on the West Coast. That sense of promise of a new day, the feeling of being one of the very first to greet that day, was missing during my time in California. Sure, I’ve seen some great sunrises at California beaches, but by the time the sun reaches California America’s morning is already old news.

We took some time to enjoy breakfast before returning to the beach for more boogie boarding and playing in the sand. Hallie, Kelly, and I rode waves together while Travis spent most of his time digging around in the sand. A dad next to us had dug a hole about knee deep. Travis volunteered to help dig and soon had a hole dug up to his chest.

After getting cleaned up, we headed to the Outer Banks Brewing Station in Kill Devil Hills for lunch (and a few double IPAs). It was an excellent meal with excellent beer. It being America’s first wind-powered brewery was a plus, too. I’d definitely go back again!

Following our late lunch, we moved down the beach to revisit the Wright Brothers Memorial (well, the kids had never seen it but Kelly and I have). We arrived as one ranger was finishing up his talk in front of the replica flyers, but we were just in time for a special “behind the ropes” opportunity to get up close to the flyers. With gloves and special permission from the ranger, Kelly and Hallie got to touch the airplane. I was impressed just seeing how well the brothers Wright had thought everything out.

We then wandered the path the first flights took before visiting the new pavilions erected for the centennial celebration in 2003. Many of the displays inside had misattributed quotes but other than that few were memorable. We did enjoy watching the short film in the auditorium.

At Wright Memorial


With only an hour left, we then wandered up to the First Flight sculpture and took some pictures of (and climbed on) this wonderful work of art. Then it was up the hill to the monument itself. With five minutes to spare, we rolled out of the lot and said goodbye to this park.

On the way back to Nags Head we stopped by the First Colony Inn, which was the site of Kelly’s and my short honeymoon in September 1999. Neither one of us has any great memories of the place: we had only planned to stay three nights there but got chased away after only two by the mandatory evacuation preceding Hurricane Floyd. Of course, Hurricane Dennis had rolled through two weeks prior, so the one thing I remember most about the First Colony was all the mosquitoes that plagued us during that short trip.

The First Colony Inn, Nags Head.


Anyhow, the family and I were disappointed to see that no staff person was around. We browsed the library for a moment or two before taking a stroll around the upper level, trying to remember where our room was. Striking out, we returned to our rental house.

With the sun setting, it was time to head out again to take family pictures on the beach. Usually this becomes a big pain in the ass as I try to get everyone to work together. Instead it became a lot of fun! I had to do a bit of MacGuyvering, though, as it’s hard to take a group photo without a tripod. While Kelly snapped shots of the kids on the beach, I scoured the dunes for a spot with not only a decent background but some sort of makeshift, rudimentary tripod that could be used.

I found just the spot, with a weathered two-by-four providing my tripod. My photo trickery also brought its own smiles to our session when we watched in surprise as my camera took an unexpected short dive into the soft sand below! A little dusting off and it was good as new.

Sunrise to sunset, it was a fun-filled day. I think out of all our vacation days this one captured most of what we like to do at the beach.