Motherhood

I used to wonder how pregnancy and motherhood would change Kelly. I heard stories from some men who said that romance takes a backseat when a kid arrives. Some of my friends shy away from pregnancy for the same reasons.

Well, even though we don’t have Hallie with us just yet, I have to say that any fears I may have had were completely unfounded.

Kelly looked great throughout her pregnancy. Her disposition was always a sunny one. And now that her pregnancy is over, her body has almost completely bounced back into shape.

But now there’s another certain glow to her. Not one of pregnancy, but one of motherhood. I look in her face and see her beaming at her wonderful accomplishment, even when she doesn’t realize she’s doing it. Her pride shows.

So now we’re on the other side of pregnancy. But it’s so much more. Because it’s parenthood.

And when I’m not gazing at our beautiful daughter, I can’t help but gaze at her beautiful mother. Both of them leave me speechless.

Motherhood hasn’t taken anything from Kelly. It has only made her more beautiful than ever.

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She’s Here!

Hallie Turner was born into this world Tuesday, June 4th, 2002 at 3:40 PM EDT at Wakemed Hospital in Raleigh.

She measures 16 inches long and weighs 3 pounds, 2 ounces.

Although she is 11 weeks early, she knows how to use her lungs, if you know what I mean. 🙂

Mom, baby, and dad are doing fine. Look for links to pictures soon!

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Memorial Day

I think Memorial Day should be changed to Peace Day. I think it would better honor those who “paid the ultimate price,” without glorifying the way they died.

No one knows better how stupid war is than the ones who have to fight it.

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Attitude

I got a lesson in attitude this past weekend. Kelly and I went to Charleston. We had a wonderful time talking with Martha, the head housekeeper at the bed and breakfast where we stayed. She just had a super attitude.

Then there was Hyman’s Restaurant downtown – a place with attitude slogans all over the place. Some of the friendliest waitstaff I’ve been around.

We also saw the IMAX movie playing in town – “Shackelton.” It’s about an Antarctic explorer who’s expedition gets stranded in the ice. Against stupefying odds, he brings his whole crew back. It would have been very easy for him to give up, but he kept a good attitude throughout the ordeal and wound up saving everybody. Incredible.

It took me a few days, but I got the message.

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Sprucing Up

I added some color to my webpage, finally. And those links on the side will actually go somewhere soon.

Stay tuned!

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Slashwot

My brother Jeff has created SlashWOT, a website that’s a complete waste of time. If you’ve got too much going on right now, surf on over there and have a look.

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Cokes

It’s after lunch and I had a craving for a Coca-Cola. I remembered the building had a vending machine, so I walked on down the hall to get my fix.

Apparently I haven’t had a Coke in a while. The price was 90 cents for a 20oz. bottle. Here I was thinking two quarters would do it, but noooooooooo.

No wonder Coke is going under. This is ridiculous.

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Kicking the habit

Today I finally stopped using Netscape. It didn’t come easy. Netscape was my first Internet love – a little window to the world, right on my desktop. And for free!

My Netscape loyalty stretches back to when there were only a handful of websites in the world. Okay, maybe not that far, but close. Mosaic was first, then came Netscape.

It was one of the few browsers to cover all the platforms I did. I could always find the stylized “N” on the desktop of whatever computer platform I chose.

But times have changed, and Netscape hasn’t kept pace. After years of neglect from Netscape itself, and then from AOL, it’s beginning to show its age. It frequently crashes on me. At least once a day.

So, I officially retired the Big N today. It’s been fun.

You might want to know, however, what I’m using to post this message. It’s Mozilla, the son of Netscape. You might remember that Mozilla was released as Open Source to much fanfare, only to see it’s development fizzle. Well, that was then, this is now. Unenumbered by pesky MBA’s pushing for impossible release dates, Mozilla has moved at its own pace.

And it’s beginning to pay off. Mozilla is closing in on it’s first official release. While it hasn’t been the smoothest sailing, at least with public expectations being so high, it has been a course of steady improvement.

I am now completely comfortable using Mozilla day to day. And I marvel how this open source project has quietly become the state of the art in web browsing.

Mozilla is a lesson in doing it right, without worrying about deadlines. It has aged like fine wine – slowly, but with exceptional taste.

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Terrorism Fear, Uncertainty, And Doubt

I’ve heard far too many people claim that “we can never go back” and “things will never be the same” after the attacks last September.

Don’t buy it.

Why should we always be on edge for people who might do us harm? Why should we give up our cherished liberties, our freedom, our trust in each other?

I, for one, do not want to be suspiscious of everyone I meet.

I, for one, do not want to submit to a police state.

I, for one, do not want an even more powerful government.

I, for one, do not think the government can “save us.” Indeed, it is our government which got us here in the first place.

I, for one, find nothing patriotic about waging war.

If you drive a gas guzzling SUV, you’re supporting terrorism. That gas comes courtesy of a corrupt and oppressive Middle Eastern country. And no, sticking an American flag on it doesn’t make it any better.

We can feel safe. We can be safe. We can live as if we have nothing to fear.

Because fear is the underlying cause of all the mistrust in the Middle East, as well as elsewhere. When fear disappears, trust can begin. And trust builds friendship.

I reject fear. I reject war. And I reject the ludicrous notion that this country is on a treadmill it can never get off.

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