I couldn’t help but notice just how crazy people are in the Los Angeles area. They’re like sharks! Rudeness abounded. Drivers honked horns constantly. Cars cut in waiting lines of traffic. Driving anywhere was an exercise in patience.
At the datacenter I was visiting, I walked across the lobby just as a woman was entering. “Excuse me,” I said as I stepped in front of her. I turned around to hear her grumbling loudly to herself “Go ahead! Walk in front of me and don’t even say ‘excuse me.'” She stormed off, leaving me shaking my head.
Wow, I thought. What is it about this place that makes people continually pissed off?
We were looking for a place to park at lunchtime at a crowded shopping center. A car in front of us was stopped to let a car back out of its parking space. A car opposite us, which had clearly gotten there first, was patiently waiting to take that spot. As we watched, the car in front of us quickly pulled into the waiting car’s spot, leaving the waiting driver livid. There were no manners anywhere!
There were exceptions, of course. My buddy Matt and wife Daniella were exceedingly generous, feeding me and putting me up for the night. They live in Palm Desert, though, where there’s more room to spread out. Also Steve, my business contact, was very cool. Decades spent in Southern California hadn’t jaded him. I suppose the surfing he does every day keeps things in perspective.
In spite of my long plane ride back, I was quite happy to be back on my home soil. Going away really makes you appreciate what you have.
As for Los Angeles, you can keep it, thank you.